My mission is to help you navigate your ever changing sexual landscape with straight-talk coaching
I offer two complementary services focused on sexual well-being:
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As a Sex Coach for Men, I provide judgment-free guidance because Men's sexuality is often silenced, with few spaces for open conversation among themselves.
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As a Sex Educator, I create inclusive learning environments for adults of all genders, orientations, and backgrounds—because when we normalize the human sexual experience together, everyone benefits.
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I meet you exactly where you are, with no nonsense messages and practical tools, because your questions aren't unusual—they're perfectly Normal... By Design.

Let's Start with You
A Man's Space
Men's Sexual Secrets So Classified Even Men Don't Know Where to Look
Performance plot twists – When The Captain occasionally refuses to rise to the occasion.
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The disappearing drive mystery – One day you're a horny teenager in a 40-something body, the next you'd rather watch the grass grow
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Dad bod diplomacy – Holding your breath in and aiming for the safety of the duvet while channelling your inner Hercules
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Relationship reboot required – When sending 'likes' on dating apps goes from a silly commute pastime to a need to be seen
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The awkward doctor chat – Questions are ready and so are the excuses (mow the lawn, walk the dog, pay taxes ) rather than ask for help
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Digital vs. reality – When your online viewing habits ( yes...good old porn, mate!) have you wondering about your brain software
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New territory temptations – Waking up to thoughts and desires that have you thinking, " Where the hell did that come from?"
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An Explorer's Space
Where Curious Minds Reclaim a Right for Pleasure First
The instruction manual myth – When it feels like everyone but you received detailed operating instructions for their bodies and desires
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The normal question – That internal debate of "Is this just me?" every time you discover a new sensation, fantasy, or interest
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Pleasure geography – Trying to navigate your own body's map of pleasure when the continents keep shifting.
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Communication confusion – When you want to express desires clear in your head, well sort of, not really, ok no, not the foggiest.
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The expectation puzzle – Sorting through which desires are genuinely yours versus those you've absorbed from the world around you
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Technique territory – When you followed the recipe to the letter expecting a Michelin star review and got " It's ok for a ready meal"
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The exploration permission slip – Seeking validation that it's okay to be curious, to experiment, to learn more about your sexuality at any age or stage.​