top of page
Grainy Texture

Normal...By Design

Sex Coaching and Education

My mission is to help you navigate your ever changing sexual landscape with straight-talk coaching

I offer two complementary services focused on sexual well-being:

​

As a Sex Coach for Men, I provide judgment-free guidance because Men's sexuality is often silenced, with few spaces for open conversation among themselves.

​

As a Sex Educator, I create inclusive learning environments for adults of all genders, orientations, and backgrounds—because when we normalize the human sexual experience together, everyone benefits.

​

I meet you exactly where you are, with no nonsense messages and practical tools, because your questions aren't unusual—they're perfectly Normal... By Design.

IMG_2297 Tate_edited.jpg

Let's Start with You

A Man's Space

Men's Sexual Secrets So Classified Even Men Don't Know Where to Look

Performance plot twists – When The Captain occasionally refuses to rise to the occasion.

​

The disappearing drive mystery – One day you're a horny teenager in a 40-something body, the next you'd rather watch the grass grow

​

Dad bod diplomacy – Holding your breath in and aiming for the safety of the duvet while channelling your inner Hercules

​

Relationship reboot required – When sending 'likes' on dating apps goes from a silly commute pastime to a need to be seen

​

The awkward doctor chat – Questions are ready and so are the excuses (mow the lawn, walk the dog, pay taxes ) rather than ask for help

​

Digital vs. reality – When your online viewing habits ( yes...good old porn, mate!) have you wondering about your brain software

​

New territory temptations – Waking up to thoughts and desires that have you thinking, " Where the hell did that come from?"

​​

An Explorer's Space

Where Curious Minds Reclaim a Right for Pleasure First

The instruction manual myth – When it feels like everyone but you received detailed operating instructions for their bodies and desires

​

The normal question – That internal debate of "Is this just me?" every time you discover a new sensation, fantasy, or interest

​

Pleasure geography – Trying to navigate your own body's map of pleasure when the continents keep shifting.

​

Communication confusion – When you want to express desires clear in your head, well sort of, not really, ok no, not the foggiest.

​

The expectation puzzle – Sorting through which desires are genuinely yours versus those you've absorbed from the world around you

​

Technique territory – When you followed the recipe to the letter expecting a Michelin star review and got " It's ok for a ready meal"

​

The exploration permission slip – Seeking validation that it's okay to be curious, to experiment, to learn more about your sexuality at any age or stage.​

© 2025 Normal By Design. Powered and secured by Wix

bottom of page